“You look beautiful,” Alodia says.
I startle at the compliment. Then I smile. “I’m beautiful to the one person who matters.”
She nods. “Hector’s mouth is going to drop open when he sees you.”
“I hope so. But I meant me. I’m beautiful to me.”
― Rae Carson, The Bitter Kingdom
I stood looking at the mirror once again
Maybe I looked thinner today
I had followed the three-day diet
I had adhered to the week-long juicing
Let’s see if this pair of jeans will go up to my waist
Just last year it fit me perfectly
Oh well,I think I will start gyming
That will work right?
I am seated at the table with family
I see it is rice that we are having for lunch
But the article said that carbs are the enemy
I feel guilty for eating
Ah forget it!
I will just go and puke it all out immediately
It’s been 2 months now
“After two months even people will notice,”
they said
The only thing I am noticing are stretch marks
Shopping for clothes is not a joy anymore
Picking from the large section is just as heavy as I am
It is a hall of shame
At the fitting room you cross your fingers that it fits
I cannot imagine going for an even larger one
I squeeze into, holding my breath and even tucking my tummy,
It looks like I am about to explode
Mmmh…it is one of those days again
and now as always,
our shopping spree comes to an end,
next time I shall have become thinner and I will buy this dress
I stand at the mirror again
Tears flowing from eyes
When will I be happy with myself
I am tired
Going out has become an ordeal
What will I wear?
Oh and again the comments from people
I need to practice my fake smile,
which i will display whenever they comment on my size
not forgetting the fake giggle
You know what?
I won’t even go out today, I am not willing to pretend today
I see photos from the event
Wow, seems like it was fun
I wouldn’t have been comfortable anyway
and on the plus side,
I went to the gym, yay for me.
Back to the mirror again
Seems like it’s tired of me now
It has been keeping comments to itself,
but today my mirror speaks to me
” Listen here young girl, you are beautiful!In this rage of losing weight, you have lost yourself.Would you quit looking for happiness in other people. When will you stop seeking approval from others? Do you think they have the same view of life that you have? Will you now starve to death for their sake? Healthy over malnourished is the mantra baby girl. Why feel sorry for eating and that’s fuel to your body? We cannot all be the same sizes. Do they even know half of how precious your soul is? Why let them in, into your head, your heart and life and they are not there to stay? You can only find happiness from within yourself. Get out there. The world needs you. Your happy is you.”
This is soo relatable!🙌
The struggle is real as it can get, but finding one’s happy surpasses any feeling on earth.
PS, ventura, you write as well as you speak!
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Aaah.
Thanks a lot 💕😘
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Mel,
I’m sure you relate with the opposite of this😃. When will you ever fit into my jeans????
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Honey,
You are beautiful both inside and out.. so is your work. 🌸
I shall still on my knees tonight and talk about every girl that struggles *i only know one rn* to the one that understands. Trust me, he talks right back. 😃
You are worth much more than a crown for being the person that you are for yourself and everybody around you. 👑
Remember that everyday!
♥️🌸
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Thank you so much love 🙂
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Yet again you speak to my soul 😃
Great work Miss Kireki
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Thank you 💟
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It couldn’t get better… Nice. Thanks
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Aaaaaw..you followed the link ❤❤.
Thank you
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This is my kind of writing. Naked. Bare. Real. What many won’t talk about. I was drawn to this post cz I’ve been through it and when I tell people about how far i went to become ‘skinny’they think I’m crazy. True, you might lose weight but so unhappy. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring someone. Cheers!
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Glad you relate. Thanks for passing by to have a read.
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You’d think it isn’t a struggle for boys/men too. But it is! Especially the fake smile part when they comment on that weight gain ugh😐 this is relatable on every level
Thank you!💕
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Glad you relate with this! But we know better now, that we are amazing in whatever size! Thanks for taking time reaad.
Welcome again when I post.
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